Let's Talk About Your Best Self
We've been the trusted guide for men and women across the globe in their journeys to healing and change. If you want to not only tackle the "problems" but also design an outstanding life and also experience it, then you are ready to partner with a coach! Learn about how you can apply to work with one of our Recovery & Wellness Coaches so you can experience extraordinary results in your recovery.
A Private Relationship For Extraordinary Results
The road to changing yourself and facing your life is a road of possibilities paved with fears, doubts, worries, and tears. It is a road that requires immense courage, faith, and willingness to move beyond your fears consistently into a state of action. Your recovery coach will serve as a safe confidante for you where you can check-in and be brutally honest about what you're facing as you move through the challenges and struggles of your journey..
Get Accountable And Follow Through
When you have someone holding you accountable and you are highly committed, that is massive leverage. Having a coach who holds you to your word is guaranteed to generate better results than anything you do on your own.
Better Manage The Ups And The Downs
If you want lasting change, you must prepare for the ups and downs that come with the recovery process. Having a coach will help push you through those rough patches, and most importantly help you celebrate and maintain your wins.
Gain Massive Clarity On Your Priorities
You can count on your coach to serve as your confidant and sounding board where you can get clear on the steps you need to take. Moreover, you can count on hearing what you NEED to hear, not just what you WANT to hear.
"I don’t want to over-praise or idolize anyone or anything inappropriately. It’s not in my nature to exaggerate or to make something seem like it’s the most amazing thing in the world. Having said that, it’s been about 5 months since I’ve been receiving coaching with a sincere intention, and I’ve developed as a human being more in the last 5 months than in the last 10 years..."
- Purify Your Gaze Member
What It's Like To Work With A Recovery Coach
Recovery is not a linear process. It’s a system of interconnected elements both internal and external to you that are all evolving at the same time. To truly heal and get outside of “survival mode”, you must consider the relationships of all these elements put together that are creating your current challenges and how to consider these different parts when designing a better quality of life.
To see it clearly, you need an outside perspective – someone who’ll call it like it is and will shine line on your blind spots. No matter how bright you are, how old you are, no matter how much you know yourself, you still have blind spots.
We all do!
But working with the right coach you can shine light on those blind spots and begin to understand yourself intimately and develop an even greater level of self-awareness than you have had before.
With that, you’ll be pushing forward through your biggest obstacles and achieve the goals that are important to you.
Here's what you can expect when you work with your coach:
1. Discover Your Blindspots And Hear What You Need To Hear
"Coaching has added a different perspective to my life, that I would have otherwise not been aware of. It is because of my coaching that I realized the importance of having a mentor to give you that tough love and share with you something you would never have realized on your own. It is extremely humbling...
2. Pick Up New And Empowering Perspectives
"I don’t think I would have gone into the depths of my story, on my own, especially since I’m very shy to ask for help in direct face-to-face interactions. To be honest, I’ve never spoken about my past to anyone, nor have I gotten any counseling so this was something new for me. Coaching has provided me with a safe avenue to talk about my past and current challenges. Alhamdullillah."
3. Embrace The Truth And Become More Honest
"Coaching is making me honest. On my own, I surround myself with “right answers” and push away what’s really inside of me. Without getting coached I would not be able to get myself anywhere (unless there was a miracle that took away my ability to lie to myself so well). I’d be stuck and not even realize it."
4. Stay Accountable And On Track With What Matters To You
"The constant well of advice as well as the experiences of others has helped me, but specifically having someone to talk to and help get me on track when I’m not pulling my weight (like when I was forced to complete all the Purify Your Gaze modules or face consequences that I agreed upon with my Coach!).
5. Take An Active Approach To Recovery
"Coaching has made me take an ACTIVE approach to my recovery and it’s one of the forces that keeps me pushing toward sobriety and not wanting to turn back. Without it, I would just be coasting through life, counting the days I’ve been clean and the days I’ve relapsed. My life would still be messed up, and I was blind to how screwed up my life had become as the addiction grew."
Hear From Past Coaching Members
"Coaching allowed me to connect to my deepest emotions that I would not have been able to on my own. I went my whole life without grieving the passing away of my father when I was a young kid and was able to see how his absence affected the development of my addiction early on and how I could heal this wound. It is from this place of seeing that hurting young kid inside me that has allowed me to keep that there’s a hurting young boy inside me, and I am the one who must take care of him."
- Purify Your Gaze Member
"I think I generally had a very low opinion of myself before coaching. I didn’t think I mattered, I felt unworthy, and I rarely looked inward. I think the best way to describe me was as someone totally numbed out, as is the affect of the addiction. With the coaching, I began to see myself as a human being with many wounds, a person that went through painful life experiences and challenges, and found only one way to cope with them which was through the addiction. After understanding bits of my own story, I’ve developed a better sense of self-compassion that was non-existent before, and recognized that I must treat myself with a lot more gentleness by taking it one day at a time, and intentionally adopting healthier coping mechanisms and ways of self care. Alhamdullillah."
- Purify Your Gaze Member
"Subhan Allah my experience through coaching has been one where I've been treated with utmost respect, acceptance and compassion. This space has allowed me to realize the truth for myself that I do matter, that I am worthy, and my life is important. The atmosphere on the calls is very encouraging, non-judgmental and it’s the safest place to be to get the help you need because of the anonymity factor. I never in my life had the opportunity for self reflection to such a great extent as coaching provides, through the various discussions on my sessions, and relevant exercises and assignments that are given."
- Purify Your Gaze Member
Talk About Your Recovery Goals With A Purify Your Gaze Coach
For a limited time only, our Purify Your Gaze coaches have released a small number of spaces in their calendars for 45 minute strategy calls to speak with you and others who are looking for a step by step strategy to break free from unwanted sexual behaviors and turn their lives around.
As advertised, you’ll get this session free of charge. The only thing we are going to ask you to do is put down a refundable $200 deposit that just ensures you prepare for the call and show up to our session on time. If you and your coach decide to continue working together this deposit will be applied to the coaching program tuition. Otherwise, the deposit will be refunded to you as soon as your call is completed.